ok so my last post was completely not what i had actually planned to write about...no i had something else on my mind...
and its more curiousity than embarrassment right this minute ( that could change)
so
a couple of my roommates are swingers..they are a couple...and their personal life isnt my business..but the swinger part i had already figured out..so it was more or less confirmed today...so yeah...but anyway...i may be naive about a lot of things but i am fully aware of what the swinger lifestyle entails..and while i have no real interest in it..the whole situation is just sorta interesting in a majorly this is not my business sorta way..i mean ive seen the other couple in passing and its not as if anyone is walking around the house naked or whatever...but what is the drive behind it? just liking sex or just liking being with a different person ..and well it takes cheating almost out of the equation if both are aware of course of who is sleeping with who..but cheating can still happen...as i learned today..and the guy was forgiven...but its just different..not good or bad...just different...
which is a huge illlogical roundabout way has me thinking of other things...relating to relationships and not..and kind of just how to bring up conversations ..i know i have to work on getting past the whole shame part of it..and realizing that well it is what it is...but how that is done? i have no idea..
to be continued
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