upset ..i dont know

i finally caught up with one of my supervisiors and had a chat about one of my cls..and it really pisses me off when someone has a problem with something ive done or havent done and they dont freaking just tell me..hello the cl doesnt talk..i cant really ask him what he wants to do for the most part..and when i do ask his guardian sometimes she gives me a straight answer and sometimes she doesnt and she never really says what she really wants me to do..ugh i cant do what im not asked to do..i know what i was told when i started..and then things can change as you get to know the family and everything but if im not being told or asked what to do to help the cl then im under the impression that what im doing is right and ok..and its not that ive done anything wrong ..its just that the guardian wants things done differently and she could have just asked me..and its a pain and it does hurt my feelings in a way..because its not even a big deal to take him out more..its just i didnt know she wanted me too..but it does bother me that she said the services havent been consistent enough..i rarely take a day off without good reason...some for training..and some for the occasional vacation..even if im sick i go to work..becasue i dont get sick days..if i dont work then im not getting paid at all..unless its a training thing..but i would say ive been as consistent as i can be..and still it doesnt seem to be enough..i hate that..i do everything im asked to do and then some and its still not enough..sometimes i really have no idea what it is ppl want from me..