just upset

and i knew it.. yeah i beat her home but she still brought up that im spending to much money after telling her i didnt have any ..it upsets me that she wants to tell me what i can and cant do with my money :( its not her business what im doing with my money..its just not..she asked for some and i gave her what i had..and still thats not good enough..she says she doesnt care but still she brings the issue up..why does it matter ??!! its not her business or her concern..im not asking her for money..ill make sure i never ask her again for money cas paying her back is to hard..and ok maybe i had money ..a little more than i told her ..but why would i tell her exactly how much i had when i know all she is going to do is tell me she needs it for some bill..she brings up how much she gets for me..groceries and what not..points out what i buy ..she asked yesterday what i bought at the store..she tried to ask today what i bought and i didnt tell her everything..but just being asked like that makes me upset and nervous..im glad she cant get into my bank account anymore..i really am..im selfish and should be more giving..i should do more around the house..blah blah blah..its all so stupid