why are the standards different?

with this whole adoption thing..why am i being held up against a whole different set of expectations?? i would hope that i thought about finances and all of that considering i am willingly taking the child..but it is frustrating that everyone just wants to know what my plan is..im not a child...i have a job..a place to live..food..and enough love for a child..why cant that be enough?? why does everything have to be focused on money...i hate that....how many ppl in the world have children that they cant afford? not saying that i am going to be struggling even more with a child..no..it means my spending habits will have to change...it will be that my priorities will change...and it just upsets me because i mean..once again im looking for the approval of others in all of this..and it cant be about them..its about me and what i want to do..what i believe i can do...but having someone not agree i guess just makes me feel doubtful..like im missing something...i dont know..maybe im just over reacting and in a bad mood this morning..i dont know..really need to get in contact with courtney..