back home

we are back..got home late last night...no more 20 hour trips for a while..im done! i dont even want to look at the inside of a car right now..but it was nice being able to drive my own car again and having all r own stuff in the car..and just i guess the comfort of knowing it was my space..not shared or crammed full of stuff..well its my car so yea it is crammed full of stuff lol..but still its my stuff..

the trip was ok..the drive was hard to deal with..and saturday ended up not really being ok..and some how managed to tell yvonne that i just needed to stay distracted..and that was hours after cutting but she picked up on the silence a bit more after being together for a week..we had a rather interesting conversation one night at her grandparents and she just kinda told me she figured i was cutting way back when we met/lived together.. among other things and it surprised the heck out of me because i was incredibly careful you know..it was never an issue..and i didnt deny it or come right out and agree that i was..but i guess not saying anything at all was as good as saying yea i was cutting..and she called me on my lovely fake excuse for how the scars got on my arm...funny excuse but obviously not true if you thought about it for a while..but eventually i got around to telilng her that i had an agreement with my doc to call if i really wasnt safe and everything and told her not to worry but well no one seems to listen to me when i say that..but trying not to think to much about it..cas i think it was just more shocking than anything else..overall the trip was fine...a lot overwhelming with all the ppl i didnt know and going place..i think it makes it harder for me because yea everyone i met was really nice and welcoming and here i am just sitting in almost absolute silence..afraid to say anything or be noticed or even looked at for that matter..and so many ppl wanted hugs and i did a bit better than just standing there and leaving my arms down but it was just a bit to much at times..i was better when it was just her grandparents that i was around but anyone else and i just didnt say much..at all..ever .. but while we were there we toasted breakfast in the fireplace..my idea! i walked in and saw the fireplace that was in the kitchen and it was like great i want to make breakfast..and we did one morning and it was cool...and majorly hot!

but now its back to everything at home..schedules and work and therapy and im glad to be back i am..and its prolly helping alot that mommy is stilll out of town until tomorrow sometime..less stress being at home at least for another day..

still really sad about saturday though and how nothing swayed the thoughts from cutting..realized how much it was missed and wanted and its like all i really wanted was an excuse to stop trying so hard..mess up once..no need to keep trying type stuff..a lot harder now though because my arm is still sore..and the whole day is still fairly clear in my head..and i dont know..trying to keep reminding myself i dont have to cut.but now i want too..and i could just scream for having razors with me in the first place..the ones we got months ago and never used just keeps managing to switch bags and so had them... no real idea how to tell linda what happened..didnt call her..and still havent because im ok..surprisingly..really sad at times about cutting and everything but not suicidal...currently..and that may be from cutting..